Sunday, March 4, 2012

Nature of LOVE

"You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."
As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love ismeant to be free, you cannot change its nature.

If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a
lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To
truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Swami Vivekananda Ji calling to refuse the slavery

AS OIL POURED FROM ONE VESSEL TO ANOTHER FALLS IN AN UNBROKEN LINE

The next is Abhyâsa, practice. The mind should always go towards God. No other things have any right to withhold it. It should continuously think of God, though this is a very hard task; yet it can be done by persistent practice. What we are now is the result of our past practice. Again, practice makes us what we shall be. So practice the other way; one sort of turning round has brought us this way, turn the other way and get out of it as soon as you can. Thinking of the senses has brought us down here — to cry one moment, to rejoice the next, to be at the mercy of every breeze, slave to everything. This is shameful, and yet we call ourselves spirits. Go the other way, think of God; let the mind not think of any physical o...r mental enjoyment, but of God alone. When it tries to think of anything else, give it a good blow, so that it may turn round and think of God. As oil poured from one vessel to another falls in an unbroken line, as chimes coming from a distance fall upon the ear as one continuous sound, so should the mind flow towards God in one continuous stream. We should not only impose this practice on the mind, but the senses too should be employed. Instead of hearing foolish things, we must hear about God; instead of talking foolish words, we must talk of God. Instead of reading foolish books, we must read good ones which tell of God.


GOD IS NOT TO BE REACHED BY THE WEAK. NEVER BE WEAK. YOU MUST BE STRONG; YOU HAVE INFINITE STRENGTH WITHIN YOU

God is not to be reached by the weak. Never be weak. You must be strong; you have infinite strength within you. How else will you conquer anything? How else will you come to God? At the same time you must avoid excessive merriment, Uddharsha, as it is called. A mind in that state never b...ecomes calm; it becomes fickle. Excessive merriment will always be followed by sorrow. Tears and laughter are near kin. People so often run from one extreme to the other. Let the mind be cheerful, but calm. Never let it run into excesses, because every excess will be followed by a reaction.

These, according to Ramanuja, are the preparations for Bhakti.

- Swami Vivekananda